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"Why do you take so long to reply?"

When it's only been like, 3 minutes.

We're not even having a conversation. Just chit chat.

I'm not always at my computer. I'm not always on my phone... I'm not always on Messenger or Instagram. I'm not always available.

I have a (part-time) job.
I try to give time to my writing.
I have things that distract me... like the gym, running errands, reading. I try to live my life away from the internet/social media.
My mental health hasn't been very good recently, so I'm trying to work on that.

Yet someone gets mad at me for not having enough free time to talk to them.

I'm busy with things. It's not personal... I'm not ignoring you. But I'm sorry if it comes off that way. 馃槓馃槵
adorbz22-25, F
When someone says that it makes me frustrated and self conscious and then I take even longer or just end up disappearing completely. Especially on here likeee come on I鈥檓 here to bounce around and do what I want not for you to demand replies 馃憖
adorbz22-25, F
[@761112,deadgerbil]
JupiterDreams26-30
[@1027452,adorbz] Me too 鈽癸笍
[@1027452,adorbz] I'm just like notice me sempai!!!!! it's never like HOW DARE YOU IGNORE ME!?!
uncalled451-55, M
Never underestimate the power of telling someone this:
JupiterDreams26-30
[@329500,uncalled4] Awww bahaha 馃槄
WanderingThrough26-30, F
I鈥檝e noticed that people here think that if you reply to them, you should focus only on them. No one I know personally is like that though, thankfully. Hopefully you don鈥檛 let it bother you too much, people who truly matter won鈥檛 be upset by slow responses. 鉂わ笍
JupiterDreams26-30
[@589136,WanderingThrough] 馃馃
JupiterDreams26-30
[@406636,causernamebemyusername] Lol 馃き
[@381079,JupiterDreams] You were gone so long! I ded like 5 times!
men have been brainwashed by their circumstances into feeling entitled to womens time... we aren't.
JupiterDreams26-30
[@10406,BetweenKittensandRiots] 馃尫馃尫
[@381079,JupiterDreams] sometimes I find myself with how lucky guys are with women thinking man I wish I understood what it felt like to feel so entitled and then of course my critical brain shortcircuits me immediately like no actually you do not because if you felt that entitled you would never put in the effort you do to connect and thus would NEVER be ANYWHERE near as popular as you've become.

women ESPECIALLY resent entitled little shits these days and my social standing basically requires empathizing with them.
tk999941-45, M
Is this a legit person, or do they really really really really really want you to buy them a Steam game card?
JupiterDreams26-30
[@1135204,tk9999] They're legit haha 馃槅
Bushmanoz56-60, M
if its like that in a chat, it would be much worse in person, real life happens and people should be ok with it.
JupiterDreams26-30
[@446022,Bushmanoz] That's true 馃槸
PrivateHellM
Sometimes it's hard to remember other people have lives beyond the screen
JupiterDreams26-30
[@573519,Valdaine] Yeah... 馃槄
ExtremeNextF
Who upset you wifey tell me and I will stab them 馃敧
JupiterDreams26-30
[@412438,ExtremeNext] Aww bby, it's okay 馃 It's someone on Insta 馃ズ But I got it
Bushmanoz56-60, M
[@542305,Miram] This is why I like you
JupiterDreams26-30
[@542305,Miram] Aww haha, it's just frustrating 馃槅

 
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