How do I deal with still missing my ex girlfriend? lesbian advice lgbt
Hello there everyone,
This might turn into a longer post so please bear with me here.
Me and my ex girlfriend dated about 2 and a half years ago and obviously a lot changed since then but I still can’t help but miss her.
She was my first love and we loved each other dearly, I was just too stupid to communicate properly and left the situation unresolved and broke her heart quite deeply, I still feel awful and I want to change the situation but I obviously can’t.
This year in February I tried to restart the relationship between us again but apparently it was too big of a shock to her and she felt overwhelmed and I’ll admit, it might was a little over the top but I couldn’t help feel heartbroken. I just miss her so much, I miss her positivity, her smile, looking into her eyes and knowing we’ll be alright, she truly is an amazing person and I tried going no contact to prevent more pain but I sometimes feel that maybe a friendship, which she offered would be a good way to start but a the same time I really don’t want to feel heartbroken yet again. I tried to move on and date other people but just nothing feels quite right, it’s not that I actively tell myself I won’t love anyone else but the thought just comes up on its own.
I already hit her up and asked the basic questions as well at asking her if she had been thinking about me recently, romantic or not.
I genuinely don’t know what to do, I just recently realised that the love I feel for her is so strong that I go or went through the stages of grief but didn’t reach acceptance.
Does anyone have advice?
Thanks
This might turn into a longer post so please bear with me here.
Me and my ex girlfriend dated about 2 and a half years ago and obviously a lot changed since then but I still can’t help but miss her.
She was my first love and we loved each other dearly, I was just too stupid to communicate properly and left the situation unresolved and broke her heart quite deeply, I still feel awful and I want to change the situation but I obviously can’t.
This year in February I tried to restart the relationship between us again but apparently it was too big of a shock to her and she felt overwhelmed and I’ll admit, it might was a little over the top but I couldn’t help feel heartbroken. I just miss her so much, I miss her positivity, her smile, looking into her eyes and knowing we’ll be alright, she truly is an amazing person and I tried going no contact to prevent more pain but I sometimes feel that maybe a friendship, which she offered would be a good way to start but a the same time I really don’t want to feel heartbroken yet again. I tried to move on and date other people but just nothing feels quite right, it’s not that I actively tell myself I won’t love anyone else but the thought just comes up on its own.
I already hit her up and asked the basic questions as well at asking her if she had been thinking about me recently, romantic or not.
I genuinely don’t know what to do, I just recently realised that the love I feel for her is so strong that I go or went through the stages of grief but didn’t reach acceptance.
Does anyone have advice?
Thanks
