How should I break the cycle of coming back every 3 months?

Whenever seasons change, I seem to crave seeing her again despite knowing that she meanwhile dated the second guy since things changed between us when I graduated from college. She didn't give me time enough to find a job and try my luck. But until today she appears mentally closer to me than to her (rather short-term) boyfriends.

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PoeticPlay · 56-60, M

Introduce a brand new activity into your life.
It gives you a different direction to go.
Where you are not likely to run into her.
A new something to do.
Giving the time need to concentrate on just you.