Yes you can. Keep wanting it! Time is not an issue, because change can happen instantly. You need a coach...and a support group. First thing, is to change the way your thinking about yourself. I'm not talking about false hype where you say positive things, but don't really feel it. FIND A LIFE COACH....A SUPPORT GROUP. The most important thing I want to say to you is " ITS NOT LATE", AND YOU DIDN'T WASTE TIME!!!