It is very strange how when a person does something wrong, their children also suffer the social backlash. Their sabotaged relationships affect their

Yes very true, and indeed subtle observation. The opposite too, some kids getting credits for no reason because their parents did good.

That's why this ancestral healing businesses are legit around. The good and bad deeds of our ancestors not only lay in the words but also in the body.

For real Miram, during meditations I have had the experience of pain of previous accidents that some I have forgotten arising. And as I was proceeding there were pains coming up in my body that I couldn't remember and I had this voice saying "mother" or "father". And so I assumed it could be a pain they have had and I inherited as a memory - not an everyday memory, but a memory of some depth.

Then my mother had always a little broken piece in one tooth and I had a little accident and I cut exactly that same piece.

I am sharing all these to add to your observations and say how, family and bloodlines affect us in a lot ways, lot more than what we may have wanted to. Breaking generational curses is a thing. Or fulfilling generational dreams, that perhaps the seed came few generations before you and it is blooming through you.