I know why people hate me.

I am also one who speaks my mind ,will call BS BS ,
and I have done a lot with my life so I have lots to talk about ,
I am also an entertainer so if the place is boring ,I can change that ,
But there is also a thing called tact ,they say its a sign of maturity ,
Young people todays seem to think its Ok just to disrespect someone ,anyone ,just because they can ,and to often like to argue just to argue ,as my Dad used to say about my ex 'That girl will argue with a fence post "
but you never know who might be listening ,
you don't have to "Kiss ASS " to open some doors
all you have to do is follow directions ,and show some respect
You never know who is listening
and being a know it all is not a sign of maturity either ,
sometimes letting other have a chance also instills team work ,not you always looking good and making them look bad until the hate you ,and actually go out of their way to set you up to fail .
Most people i have helped all said they did not care to hear my little words of wisdom until after they were 30 ,and had kids ,
or they were faced with a problem and no one would help ,and then they heard me in their heads warning them their know it all attitude was one day going to cost them ,very few I know who learn the hard way take getting taken down a notch or to take it so well ,
And then they also seen the ones who shut up and listened were successful
and at 30 ,they were just getting started ,finally settled enough to take some sound advise ,I have done enough and failed enough I can divert many around road blocks ,pot holes and red tape .
I was a know it all too and learned most things the hard way ,
but its sad to find out later in life you could have been successful way earlier ,,but you got passed over because you would not shut up long enough to hear ,you got the promotion ,but the boss heard you blowing your own horn ,got mad, changed his mind and gave your job to someone else ,someone I actually trained ,
But live and learn ,at least now I have helped others be successful ,
The ones who shut up and did not try to act like they had my years of experience when they didn't.
as a wise teacher told me ,
its better to be silent sometimes and be thought a fool ,as to open your mouth and remove all doubt
I wish I had listened

But you said people or [b]love you[/b] or hate it. So, there's a love you too.
It usually happens to people who don't use social vaseline and are straight, so be proud.

Of course, if they all do hate you. I would think of testing myself but if you find authentic people who accept how you are, go ahead.

No hate here, I don't know you yet.. welcome aboard !!

So your authentic. Cool

Those that hate me, hate me because I've been hiding behind my shadow for years. I'm a broken vessel now, but I don't expect anyone's forgiveness for quite some time to come if at all.

just be yourself.. as long as you're not purposely hurting someone's feelings you don't have to change or please anyone but yourself

That is the way to be......honest, forthright, bold, and cute...😊

stay being you