If a friend who's gained weight asks you if she's gotten fat, do you spare her feelings or be completely honest?

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Gaining weight doesn't necessarily mean she's gotten fat, and if she has, she's noticed already. I'd tell her that if she has a problem with her weight, then she should try to fix it.

SW-User

She doesn't have a problem with her weight, she just wants to ask for a validation