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My ex made another email and messaged me again

I'm shaking. Why is he trying to act caring now. What do I say?
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SW-User
its your choice but some guys do that... its all head games.. act like an ass when they get you then act all friendly when they dont.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Ikr! I don't play those games so I'm not replying
WhitePigeon · 22-25, M
@Itsprincess: What if it's not an act? He might actually miss you!
SW-User
doesnt change the fact how he acted.
WhitePigeon · 22-25, M
You can't learn anything from fear of the future, the past my be an experience, but the present is to observe! And what she should observe is how he feared for her safety.
SW-User
an ass will always be an ass. just because he acted nicely there doesnt change anything.. seen it way to often with men.
WhitePigeon · 22-25, M
It wouldn't hurt to know if he actually changed. I've seen redemption many of times, even if what you're saying is true, you should know that there are always a way to make an ass learn new tricks, maybe someone finally did learn his lesson!
SW-User
why go back.. and why are you concerned?
WhitePigeon · 22-25, M
I just hate seeing a love story unfinished. :/
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@WhitePigeon: aw sorry but he's done this countless times. I don't think he will ever change and every time I try see I end up getting hurt
WhitePigeon · 22-25, M
Did he used to physically hurt you or was it just mental?
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@WhitePigeon: mental however I only met him once for a few days. He has threatened to hit me a few times
WhitePigeon · 22-25, M
You don't want to know what I did to my fiance, because it would shock you. We reconciled and were happier than ever, after I changed! As you say he never touched you, only threatened. Why did he threaten, do you remember?
SW-User
white just let it go... it not good getting involved with someone who is physical or mentally abusive.. most people dont change.. and it sounds like you have problems if you attacked your fiance.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@WhitePigeon: that's good for you! I think it's really rare though. Because I didn't go to college one day and once because I stuck my middle finger up at him as a joke