How is it that men want a beautiful sexy wife, yet the majority of men let themselves go right after marriage?
Now this is not about everyone, Because I don't fall into this. But I looked at a few of my married couple friends and they seem to fall into this. Now most of the women I speak of are a little overweight and frumpy looking. Well there husbands are really unattractive, no sexy bodies no sexy faces, old and aging but yet they feel like there women should drop a few pounds and be more sexy. Well how does that work when a man himself is basically old and busted looking. Most men actually become less attractive and age much faster then women so how is it they feel women don't want the same things. Like my husband and I both said from the start if you get all fat and start slacking off then we wouldn't be attracted to each other. But we agree it goes both ways. So why do men want a trophy when they themselves don't even come close to being one?