why is this happening with me?
i want to cry and release myself from all the stress and emotions that are inside me from past 3 years but not even a single drop of tear is falling.. icant handle this anymore
26-30, M
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I'm so sorry for your pain. I do want you to know many experience this. You're not alone. It's called melancholy depression. It's when you've gone through so much, you just can't even cry anymore. I will pray for you, if that's alright. The most important thing to do now, I believe, is not to force your feelings. You'll come out of it when your body is ready. In the meantime, please take good care of yourself. Now is a time when you need to pamper yourself. Try and focus on something you enjoy and do that. I promise it will pass. I've experienced the same. If you need to talk, we're all here to listen. You are loved and welcome here. That's what we're here for, to encourage and uplift each other in all seasons of our lives. Don't hesitate to reach out to any of us you feel could help. We may not have an answer for you, but know we do care. I hope you'll feel better soon.
mannansingh · 26-30, M
@mannansingh: I did. So will you. Our bodies were meant to have great resilience and will/do heal on their own, given time. I'm not saying all the pain will go away. It may or may not. A lot depends on you and the attitude you take, to tell the truth. I've gone through what some said they didn't know how I did it, and so will you get through this. I used prayer and I felt God speak to my heart this message: "It's not what you've lost; it's what you do with what you have left in life, that counts." This and faith pulled me through. You have this same strength to draw on inside. It may be in a different message, but from the same strength, if you'll draw on it. Things like this just don't happen. There's a very good reason for them. I believe these are the things that give us strength, stamina, courage, work patience, humbleness, perseverance, and even faith as we come out the other side. These painful times tell us it's time for a change in our lives. Something needs to change. We can't stay stuck. We're meant to move forward. You will. I believe in you. Always a friend, Grace
mannansingh · 26-30, M
That's why he says, "Come to Me, all who are heavily troubled and weary from life, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28
That is an invitation from Him to you, but it's up to you if you wish to accept it. Yes, troubles can make a person stone-hearted, when they go through life alone, or tackle problems on their own. That's why the invitation. He has a better life for you and doesn't want you to unnecessarily go through life alone, nor to hurt.
That is an invitation from Him to you, but it's up to you if you wish to accept it. Yes, troubles can make a person stone-hearted, when they go through life alone, or tackle problems on their own. That's why the invitation. He has a better life for you and doesn't want you to unnecessarily go through life alone, nor to hurt.
mannansingh · 26-30, M
Because of my experience with him. What he's done for me in my life. @mannansingh:
mannansingh · 26-30, M
@ImagineThat: well for me he took the exact same thing i wanted him to protect for me..
I'm sincerely sorry for your loss. But how do you know God took it? He came to give life, not take it. Satan is the author of death, not God. God gets blamed for so much. There can be a million reasons why we suffer loss. For example: Many die of cancer. Why? Could be a dozen reasons. Perhaps they didn't take care of their self. That's not God's fault, though is a great tragedy. @mannansingh:
mannansingh · 26-30, M
@ImagineThat: we can argue on this topic all day long because i m atheist and you are a strong believer
Oh no....not my intention to argue at all. I am only discussing. I apologize for the intrusion. I had no idea of your beliefs. I hope you feel better soon. Take care of yourself. @mannansingh:
mannansingh · 26-30, M