Yesterday i found out that my father who ive been living with since i was a baby isnt my bilogical father

And im 24 years old and my mom has never told me the reason i found out is cause i met my real dads uncle so my mom and dad still dont know i know.... How would you feel in this situation?

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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

So you are in receipt of information that without confirmation, you don't actually know to be true.....
The plot thickens !
Why do you suppose this person - your real dad's uncle, would say that ??
Time for some one to one, you and mom time i think.

Strawhatluffy · 31-35, M

Well it wasnt just him it was my cousins from my moms side too theyve always known and weve always known my dads uncle and his family i just never knew he was my real uncle on my dads side i never even knew they were actually related to us until friday night when they told me everything and it definitely makes sense i just wanna know why my mom left him i mean at this point it doesnt really matter cause im old already i really dont care about meeting my dad but i just wanna know the truth

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

@Captainstrawhat: I worked with young people for years in a social work capacity.
The one thing they ALL used to say, without exception ! Is the thought of 'not knowing who they truly are'.
Not knowing if some of your traits are down to a missing person in your life.
Time for that chat with mom.