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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Low self-esteem. I often can't distance myself from the criticism when it's targeted at something I want to be good at and it makes me lose will and motivation to work on it any further.
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@CrazyMusicLover thats me too! 😔
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Simplyme33 I can't see it just as an opinion of one person, I immediately take it as the universal truth. "This sucks, people don't like it. I suck at this." Even if it might be just one person's opinion.
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@CrazyMusicLover even if its just my own opinion! I totally get u

DancingStarGoddess · Best Comment
I'm incapable of doing harm to people I love or care about. Can't even say mean things to them if I'm upset with them unless they're absolutely true and even then I wouldn't say them to hurt them. But, they can hurt me and I can't do a thing about it but get away from them.

If they begin to say mean things, especially things that aren't true or call me names or anything out of anger I'm unable to let it go and my mind always remembers that as "what they ACTUALLY think of me, but didn't have the guts to say until they were good and mad." Because a lot of times anger works like being drunk and you say things you normally wouldn't because you're sparing the person's feelings. So no matter what, I'm ALWAYS going to know that's what they think and I can't fix that broken piece... Especially not if they do it often or try to force me to let it go.

I do understand that sometimes people say untrue things JUST with the intention of doing harm out of anger, but that's even worse. I can't fathom intentionally harming someone I have professed to love, so if they can then I can't and don't want to be near or with them.
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@DancingStarGoddess Im the same but even wigh strangers
@Simplyme33 I understand, I don't want to really do anything to anyone. Wanting to randomly do harm to people is weird I think and I don't understand those who enjoy it. The thought of even punching someone has always bothered me. I used to have to fight so much and I hated it. It made me change my life

Thank you for bc also.
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@DancingStarGoddess yeah so true.
Sapio · 51-55, M
Corporate dressed women, cheesecake, and Reese's peanut butter cups. I'd say those are my top 3 at the moment.
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@Sapio nice ones
romell · 51-55, M
That's good why hate yourself for that ...
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@romell u should live it to realize how difficult it is. They hurt u, u cant hurt them back..
Atari2678 · 41-45, M
GoFish ·
babies and a pretty face

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Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@GoFish nice
GoFish ·
@Simplyme33 yeah 😅☺
mindless · M
O don't see how that's a weakness... I think that makes you a good person
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@mindless some ppl play dirty games. Talking behind ur back and all. Firmness cant fix that
mindless · M
@Simplyme33 I don't know the situation, but playing their game drags you down to their level
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@mindless yeah I know
Men and booze.
SW-User
Functioning body and mind
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@SW-User dont say that.
empanadas · 31-35, M
Curvy women and trying to be a good person
Whyme · 46-50, M
There’s worse qualities to have
justmeonline · 51-55, M
I sighed reading this. Same, I guess, but if it comes down to extreme situations, I would.
thepeculiarpanda · 36-40, M
I give up on things too easily.
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@thepeculiarpanda u really shouldnt
thepeculiarpanda · 36-40, M
@Simplyme33 I'm working on it for sure. :)
I think anyone can hurt someone else. It's the matter of whether we want to or not.
@Simplyme33 I think hurting someone leaves a sour taste in your soul.
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@Hinckley I know.😔 thats why I avoid it
@Simplyme33 Good, I'm glad.
FreestyleArt · 36-40, M
I don't talk much. this life depress me. I;m used to it
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@FreestyleArt I understand
SleepingWithGhosts · 46-50, M
Unfortunately, smoking.
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@SleepingWithGhosts its never late to change
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