I'm incapable of doing harm to people I love or care about. Can't even say mean things to them if I'm upset with them unless they're absolutely true and even then I wouldn't say them to hurt them. But, they can hurt me and I can't do a thing about it but get away from them.
If they begin to say mean things, especially things that aren't true or call me names or anything out of anger I'm unable to let it go and my mind always remembers that as "what they ACTUALLY think of me, but didn't have the guts to say until they were good and mad." Because a lot of times anger works like being drunk and you say things you normally wouldn't because you're sparing the person's feelings. So no matter what, I'm ALWAYS going to know that's what they think and I can't fix that broken piece... Especially not if they do it often or try to force me to let it go.
I do understand that sometimes people say untrue things JUST with the intention of doing harm out of anger, but that's even worse. I can't fathom intentionally harming someone I have professed to love, so if they can then I can't and don't want to be near or with them.
If they begin to say mean things, especially things that aren't true or call me names or anything out of anger I'm unable to let it go and my mind always remembers that as "what they ACTUALLY think of me, but didn't have the guts to say until they were good and mad." Because a lot of times anger works like being drunk and you say things you normally wouldn't because you're sparing the person's feelings. So no matter what, I'm ALWAYS going to know that's what they think and I can't fix that broken piece... Especially not if they do it often or try to force me to let it go.
I do understand that sometimes people say untrue things JUST with the intention of doing harm out of anger, but that's even worse. I can't fathom intentionally harming someone I have professed to love, so if they can then I can't and don't want to be near or with them.
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@DancingStarGoddess Im the same but even wigh strangers
@Simplyme33 I understand, I don't want to really do anything to anyone. Wanting to randomly do harm to people is weird I think and I don't understand those who enjoy it. The thought of even punching someone has always bothered me. I used to have to fight so much and I hated it. It made me change my life
Thank you for bc also.
Thank you for bc also.
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@DancingStarGoddess yeah so true.
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@romell u should live it to realize how difficult it is. They hurt u, u cant hurt them back..
GoFish ·
@Simplyme33 yeah 😅☺
mindless · M
O don't see how that's a weakness... I think that makes you a good person
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Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@mindless some ppl play dirty games. Talking behind ur back and all. Firmness cant fix that
SW-User
Functioning body and mind
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@SW-User dont say that.
Whyme · 46-50, M
There’s worse qualities to have
justmeonline · 51-55, M
thepeculiarpanda · 36-40, M
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@thepeculiarpanda u really shouldnt
thepeculiarpanda · 36-40, M
@Simplyme33 I'm working on it for sure. :)
Hinckley ·
I think anyone can hurt someone else. It's the matter of whether we want to or not.
Hinckley ·
@Simplyme33 I think hurting someone leaves a sour taste in your soul.
FreestyleArt · 36-40, M
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@FreestyleArt I understand
SleepingWithGhosts · 46-50, M
Simplyme33 · 31-35, F
@SleepingWithGhosts its never late to change
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Low self-esteem. I often can't distance myself from the criticism when it's targeted at something I want to be good at and it makes me lose will and motivation to work on it any further.