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The mother of my son's classmate chain-smokes indoors and walks around topless. Do I report her to CPS or confront her directly?

Last week, I posted about the mother of my son's classmate after picking my son up from their house. She chain-smokes indoors around the kids and even posts about it openly on Instagram.
https://similarworlds.com/life/5653968-How-do-people-like-her-even-get-to-keep-their-kids
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Since then, I've spoken with other parents from school, and it turns out several of them share the exact same concerns. On top of the heavy smoking, a few of the boys have seen her lounging around topless while they were over. I also found out that other parents have already reported her to CPS in the past.

Needless to say, my son won't be visiting their house anymore. However, I’m torn on what to do next. Should I file a report with CPS as well, or would it be better to send her a direct message to address this? If I do reach out directly, I have no idea how to phrase it. Any advice would be appreciated!
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PoeticPlay · 56-60, M
It really depends on if you want that smoke or not. 🤔




Yeah... I'll see myself out.
I know the way.
MoveAlong · 70-79, M
I need to investigate this. Please PM her address and phone number.
SizEmUp · 26-30, M
well the smoking is bad for one but its a personal choice.
GoFish ·
you let your son go to strangers houses without vetting them first? why are you advertising her media?
GoFish ·
@missA yeah but why promote her media constantly
missA · 31-35, F
@GoFish Promoting her definitely isn't my intention
GoFish ·
@missA well that's what you are doing anyway
MasterLee · 56-60, M
She probably smells like a cigarette
missA · 31-35, F
@MasterLee You can't even imagine how overwhelming the cigarette smell on her and in her house is
Rabbit420 · M
If your son won't be going back then leave her alone. Even though it's disgusting and unhealthy that she chain smokes around them, there is nothing wrong with boys seeing bare breasts. As long as she's not doing it to arouse them.
meggie · F
I think the person posting this is the smoker and is seeking attention.
WanderingHelplessly · 51-55, M
@meggie That makes sense
WanderingHelplessly · 51-55, M
I'm confused about why you wish to message her or call CPS. I reason that others have, and she's still doing it. Do you really feel that you will magically change her attitude?

 
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