Hope so everything go well with you

move to europe, leave mom behind,

You don’t need more people. You need better quality people, and that might be only one person rather than 100 people. You can love and respect and honor your mother without kicking her out of your life.

Well done for actually identifying your problem and then determining your course of action. I know that sounds very simple but many can’t do it.
Sounds like there are now lots of opportunities in front of you.
All the best in capitalising on them and benefiting from your and your daughters new growth.

You had these realizations before as well, what happened about them?
Still same.

I don't understand why people blame others or situations instead of themselves for not doing what needs to be done.

How immature of you to call your mom toxic. That's simply being a mother.
You are a mother to a daughter, let's see how that turns out for you.

What if your daughter calls you toxic?

Who foots your bills ??It's your job right ..so we don't have a choice

i hope it works,and in europe cook a meal of freedom