I do hope you find your self-worth, beyond the way you look because as you age, that will much more essential for your mental health. I am just happy that my body is still functioning fairly well, I'm grateful that I can walk everytime I see this man, in a wheelchair, zoom by on the street. I hope your income provides you with some confidence, never shrink yourself for someone else's ego.

It's okay to support your husband while he tries to advance his career.

And your hair is gorgeous.

All things you can work through.

Everyone deals with that static. I wish I could bench more or swim further. But you can't have it all just like that. Weight is manageable. Sugar and fat reduction in your diet will help you lose weight. If you drink sugary drinks or eat ice cream or pizza you'll gain weight. If you eat things like rice with chicken and avocado slices you'll lose weight. Talk to AI about it. It can help you figure it out.

I'm going to comment on each thing.

1) You should never compare yourself to others. It will only hurt you in the end.

2) That was downright cruel and mean-spirited of someone to say that to you. I believe it got you down because it felt like they were shaming you for bringing in more money than your husband. He's working and not mooching.

3) I bet you are not as fat as you feel you are.

4) I've done that to people. My friend mentioned it today, and I'm pondering how to address it. Have you said something?

And just enjoy the Tea... Chill

1) Stop comparing yourself to others, you will drive yourself crazy.

2) Opinions are like a-holes, everybody's got their own.

3) Gym memberships solves everything.

4) Have you tried giving him the bird? That usually does the trick.

Just stay focused on yourself and your loved ones. Don’t pay attention to others. It’s just noise. You are what you are and people should accept you the way you are.

You r fearing the unknown

You judge by looks alone !

😐