I know I’m wasting my breath because you don’t take any advice and have excuses for everything but……

Best way to stop worrying is to use your time more productively. Instead of wasting hours having mostly one time interactions with strangers in malls and cafes, you could use those same hours volunteering and/or joining clubs which could lead to your gaining contacts to help you get a job. And help you socially too.

And this way your mom calling to ask where you are wouldn’t be an issue because you’d be spending the same amount of time and hours doing something productive instead of what you’re currently doing which is getting you nowhere. You’re extremely stubborn but it really is time to do something different. Try harder.