Question to older users: Do plenty of you expect younger people in their 20s to be talking with diverse age groups and backgrounds people?
So this is a question which i typically have put of curiosity. As plenty of users on here are older often 40s to 60s and some even 70s which means plenty of you have much more life experiences, do you all expect younger adults these days to be more socially confident with diverse people instead of just sticking to the safe bubble of being with the only same age group peers? I am asking this both in friendship and dating context or maybe even in socializing context. Online in some forums I do see some men suggesting young men in their 20s to go for older women to gain more experience so do some of you feel that too? Like when I was 22-23 and in my MBA and posted about my crushes like Anshika, Akansha or Dimple who were mostly about my age and Indians too and used crying emojis like 😭🥲🥹 in my posts as I used to be shy especially with Anshika, did many of you ever feel "Omg why is he only crushing on the same women mostly his age in his college instead of diversifying himself and going for women from other cultural backgrounds or older women too?"
Also I notice plenty of college aged and 20 somethings where I live in the city Bangalore in India sticking to the same peer bubble which are mostly in the same age group and having silly chats with those cringe crying emojis like 😭😭 and all. This is happening with plenty of people in this age group so do some of you people ever find it cringe and wonder why they aren't diversifying their circle or socializing? Don't you all feel why are many of them only sticking to crushes or others in their college class and not going to some 21+ venues and meeting diverse age group people? Like now I am 25 and as I recently completed my MBA 9 months ago, I am socializing with more with Indian women, foreign women and even foreign men in Central cosmopolitan parts of our city Bangalore. I am not just talking to 20 something women only but sometimes also with foreign women and men in their 30s and even 40-50 age range too so yeah I am diversifying my socializing for real and it makes me feel proud that I am able to talk to older women without freezing and greet them and feel way more confident nowadays. I am not longer just using crying emojis but taking real life social risks to build connections as I don't have a peer environment. So yeah that's why this question came in my mind for many of you whether you expect us to diversify when it comes to socializing, friendships and even dating.
Also I notice plenty of college aged and 20 somethings where I live in the city Bangalore in India sticking to the same peer bubble which are mostly in the same age group and having silly chats with those cringe crying emojis like 😭😭 and all. This is happening with plenty of people in this age group so do some of you people ever find it cringe and wonder why they aren't diversifying their circle or socializing? Don't you all feel why are many of them only sticking to crushes or others in their college class and not going to some 21+ venues and meeting diverse age group people? Like now I am 25 and as I recently completed my MBA 9 months ago, I am socializing with more with Indian women, foreign women and even foreign men in Central cosmopolitan parts of our city Bangalore. I am not just talking to 20 something women only but sometimes also with foreign women and men in their 30s and even 40-50 age range too so yeah I am diversifying my socializing for real and it makes me feel proud that I am able to talk to older women without freezing and greet them and feel way more confident nowadays. I am not longer just using crying emojis but taking real life social risks to build connections as I don't have a peer environment. So yeah that's why this question came in my mind for many of you whether you expect us to diversify when it comes to socializing, friendships and even dating.





