I have no words!!!!
So Saturday i decided to go out with the friend as we had brought tickets for a music event and i have been such a hermit i thought sod it!
So hubby has picked my friend up and his taking us up town and all of a sudden my phone goes and when I look at the name that is appearing on my phone I’m in complete and utter shock but I don’t say anything as I know hubby would worry.
The name was of the ex best friend who loved bombed me!!!! Like WTAF!!
All I see was hey “name”, I have been thinking about you a lot recently so I wanted… anyways I turned of delivery notification and me and my friend had a look and yeah basically she felt a need to reach out to me as I been in her mind.
I did reply after a few drinks then all of a sudden I’m crying because I think all the rejection, love bombing and lies that had hurt me deeply had finally hit me even tho I thought I had dealt with it.
I didn’t reply again and I left it till the next day when my head was clear and I realised I Don’t want her back in my life so when she asked if we could meet for coffee I dismissed the offer and just said I’m doing well etc etc and her reply to that was a bit cold as she probably wasn’t expecting me to have boundaries.
Basically the friends she fucked me off for had been mean to her and she said she had no friends which is why I think she reached out because she missed me always picking her up but sadly I have moved on and got better friends who have my back.
Her last reply was short with a take it easy at the end and thankfully she hasn’t messaged again but I think I was being tested to see if I learnt that lesson and I have and I am a different person now!
I am so proud of myself but this has shown how much I have grown! 😇
So hubby has picked my friend up and his taking us up town and all of a sudden my phone goes and when I look at the name that is appearing on my phone I’m in complete and utter shock but I don’t say anything as I know hubby would worry.
The name was of the ex best friend who loved bombed me!!!! Like WTAF!!
All I see was hey “name”, I have been thinking about you a lot recently so I wanted… anyways I turned of delivery notification and me and my friend had a look and yeah basically she felt a need to reach out to me as I been in her mind.
I did reply after a few drinks then all of a sudden I’m crying because I think all the rejection, love bombing and lies that had hurt me deeply had finally hit me even tho I thought I had dealt with it.
I didn’t reply again and I left it till the next day when my head was clear and I realised I Don’t want her back in my life so when she asked if we could meet for coffee I dismissed the offer and just said I’m doing well etc etc and her reply to that was a bit cold as she probably wasn’t expecting me to have boundaries.
Basically the friends she fucked me off for had been mean to her and she said she had no friends which is why I think she reached out because she missed me always picking her up but sadly I have moved on and got better friends who have my back.
Her last reply was short with a take it easy at the end and thankfully she hasn’t messaged again but I think I was being tested to see if I learnt that lesson and I have and I am a different person now!
I am so proud of myself but this has shown how much I have grown! 😇
