Do you feel I missed out by not initiating with her?
So today in Church Street area of our city Bangalore in India, I again saw this woman Suhani who was my classmate during 1st year of MBA quite recently. So as I was still a bit shy during 1st year of MBA, she used to sometimes wonder why I didn't talk with her much and even asked my male classmates the reason and was really curious about it and there was also a rumor by some male classmates that she was interested in me but idk if it was true and my main crush was still Anshika. But I surprised her with my confidence finally 8 months ago during our MBA convocation and talked with her and even suggested we will hang out some day in Church Street as she works in a coworking space there. Then 7 months ago, I again bumped into her in Church Street itself and we had a 1 on 1 interaction there. I am 25 now and she is also 25. But after a long time today I again saw her there but I didn't initiate today.
Thats because she was with her coworkers instead of solo and was going somewhere with them probably having a short break so yeah it would have felt awkward at the moment to approach her. Plus I felt a bit insecure about approaching her too as the last time I talked with her, I mentioned job searching but the search is still ongoing 7 months later so I was like what will she think of me if she came to know I am still searching so yeah thats why too I couldn't initiate especially as her coworker friends were with her. I would have been comfortable if she was solo. But yeah recently I had been mostly socializing with strangers so yeah it would have felt so refreshing to be talking to a familiar peer like her who was my classmate especially as its been quite a while since I spoke with familiar peers in person. She was the most familiar person at the moment in Church Street as everyone else around were strangers. Do you feel I missed out?
Thats because she was with her coworkers instead of solo and was going somewhere with them probably having a short break so yeah it would have felt awkward at the moment to approach her. Plus I felt a bit insecure about approaching her too as the last time I talked with her, I mentioned job searching but the search is still ongoing 7 months later so I was like what will she think of me if she came to know I am still searching so yeah thats why too I couldn't initiate especially as her coworker friends were with her. I would have been comfortable if she was solo. But yeah recently I had been mostly socializing with strangers so yeah it would have felt so refreshing to be talking to a familiar peer like her who was my classmate especially as its been quite a while since I spoke with familiar peers in person. She was the most familiar person at the moment in Church Street as everyone else around were strangers. Do you feel I missed out?
22-25, M