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Is it really still unusual that I talk to strangers even though this is my main reason behind it?

So yeah some people on here are questioning me for talking to women I don't know but the main reason is my MBA is just done recently and no job yet so I don't have classmates or coworkers to socialize with so how the hell am I supposed to socialize and meet new people? Dating apps or online isn't working for me and there is so much ghosting. I remember a couple of years ago when I posted on here about dating apps or Instagram not working and how much I got ghosted, you all said me to stop using apps and go out and meet real people. Whats wrong in talking with new people if I am unable to naturally talk or meet people like I could during MBA? Also don't say hobby club or volunteering because I live with parents(yes normal in India) in a residential area of our city Bangalore in India while still searching for a job so I don't have much flexibility or freedom to join them and I already have to make some random excuses to go out to Central areas of our city.

I am 25 and this is my age to want to meet new people and socialize. University is done so I don't even have classmates or anyone to socialize with so why is it unusual if I am trying to create opportunities by talking to new people even if strangers? I will be fully isolated and alone in home if I didn't do it as I don't really have friends. I was bullied and isolated and trust issues so didn't talk to girls for years when younger as I became too shy and didn't make many friends in general so whats wrong if I am trying to meet new people at 25 and avoid being isolated in home? There is a reason behind it obviously. I don't have coworkers or anyone to talk to as I am still searching for a job. I don't have that lively social University environment now either.
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CurrentName · 51-55, M
What opportunities are you trying to create.?
Heroisthebest25 · 22-25, M
@CurrentName Opportunities means social opportunities. Like if I am having a coffee in a Cafe and sitting at a table close to a woman, I initiate a conversation with her saying "Hello. Just saying Hi to new people" but I only do it if she isnt very busy on her laptop or isn't wearing headphones. Like I said my MBA is just done so I don't have classmates to talk to anymore so that's why I am doing this. Once I get a job, I will get coworkers and then I will have a social life again

 
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