The reason why its still hard for me to believe that the interaction still happened yesterday. What do you think?
So in my previous post I already shared about the very playful interaction I had with the 2 British women yesterday in this boutique outdoor seating area in Lavelle Road of our city Bangalore in India. I still find it hard to believe tho that I had that interaction. Because usually in most of my interaction with both foreign and Indian women, it's mostly about my MBA, career, city, traffic, hobbies, travel (mostly when talking with foreigners) etc and its mostly just normal interaction which are pleasant, but this one was completely different especially if you also combine it with the fact that I am a late-bloomer who was bullied in school, then isolated and was shy near girls for years. Like I said those 2 women were travelers from the UK and were somewhere in their 20s and I am 25 and they were drinking a can of beer, so they were slightly drunk and thats what I guess made them more playful. They were teasing me a lot like asking whether I was waiting for my date when I said them, I am just exploring around and when I blushed and said no, they said "Aww so shy". They also asked me what would I tell them to ask them out for a drink and I said I would say this line "Hey would you join me for drink?" and they laughed and teasingly asked me what if I say no and I said, "Then I will say okay then have a great day and move on" and then they laughed and said aww thats so sweet. They were fully leading the interaction and teasing me whereas as it was my first time women were being like this, I was blushing more and just answering what they asked and sadly couldn't really tease them back or maybe mildly flirt or compliment them. They also gave a high five and one of them I tried to give high five suddenly dived the hand down saying, "Its a scuba dive" and laughed. Not gonna lie I found it cute haha.
But before leaving when one of them said let me give a hug, my heartbeat was raising. Yes it was just a side hug eventually but in none of my previous interactions, I had any form of a hug so yeah I didn't expect it at all especially by such a gorgeous woman. She was also dancing while giving that side hug. Thats why this interaction was so much memorable and fun. I had much more fun even though I felt a bit caught off-guard in this one haha. The interaction was so much fun that I forgot about the diversity in Bangalore. I even had brief conversations with a Dutch woman in 1MG Lido Mall, a German woman in Brigade Road and also greeted a Black man with his white male friend. I've had 2 women recognize me yesterday as well. One was this foreign expat woman with whom I didn't have much interactions and just brief greetings and she smiled and said me "Hello" and "You again". Another Indian woman in Church Street also recognized me saying she remembers me and I talked with her before in this Cafe and I said yeah just thought of saying Hi and said her have a great day and walked away. But the 2 British women interaction is what made the day so good.
But before leaving when one of them said let me give a hug, my heartbeat was raising. Yes it was just a side hug eventually but in none of my previous interactions, I had any form of a hug so yeah I didn't expect it at all especially by such a gorgeous woman. She was also dancing while giving that side hug. Thats why this interaction was so much memorable and fun. I had much more fun even though I felt a bit caught off-guard in this one haha. The interaction was so much fun that I forgot about the diversity in Bangalore. I even had brief conversations with a Dutch woman in 1MG Lido Mall, a German woman in Brigade Road and also greeted a Black man with his white male friend. I've had 2 women recognize me yesterday as well. One was this foreign expat woman with whom I didn't have much interactions and just brief greetings and she smiled and said me "Hello" and "You again". Another Indian woman in Church Street also recognized me saying she remembers me and I talked with her before in this Cafe and I said yeah just thought of saying Hi and said her have a great day and walked away. But the 2 British women interaction is what made the day so good.
22-25, M
