Damn i met her for the 4th time and still couldn't ask her Instagram. Do you feel 4th time meeting was enough for asking it?
So yeah as you all know I am 25 and just completed my MBA very recently so socializing more these days. So today on Sunday I again went out and in Indiranagar area of our city Bangalore in India which is the hipster neighborhood and cosmopolitan, in this Cafe i again bumped into this expat woman from Sweden. Yeah we talked 3 times before across Cafes of Indiranagar. Today again after a gap of 2-3 months since the last one, I met her. I initiated to her saying Hello and she immediately said "Oh hello. How are you doing?" I said I am doing good and just chilling around on Sunday and asked her and she said she is doing good as well and just having coffee as well. I also said her it was good to meet her again and she also said the same. I asked her how is her work going on and she said it's going good and she mentioned studying a small course in between as well and then asked about me and I said I just recently completed my MBA and job searching and she congratulated me about my MBA.
Yeah we talked a bit but as the table near her wasn't empty, I had to stand and talk which made it harder to have a longer conversation especially in a crowded Cafe on a Sunday so I eventually ended it saying her have a great day and she also wished me a great day and best of luck. But my only regret is we met the 4th time and she recognized me and talked well but still I couldn't ask her Instagram or at the very least Linkedin to connect. Idk it feels like it would have been appropriate to once ask about connecting as we met a few times already before. But yeah I couldn't ask at the moment and eventually took a table and ordered an Americano coffee.
Yeah we talked a bit but as the table near her wasn't empty, I had to stand and talk which made it harder to have a longer conversation especially in a crowded Cafe on a Sunday so I eventually ended it saying her have a great day and she also wished me a great day and best of luck. But my only regret is we met the 4th time and she recognized me and talked well but still I couldn't ask her Instagram or at the very least Linkedin to connect. Idk it feels like it would have been appropriate to once ask about connecting as we met a few times already before. But yeah I couldn't ask at the moment and eventually took a table and ordered an Americano coffee.
