@DystopianDivalry multitasking

@Cigarguys I had severe pneumonia a couple of years ago was almost bedridden for 6 months.
One of my lungs collapsed. It was difficult letting my husband do almost everything because I got way too tired out to do much.
Are you usually the caregiver? It was hard, for me not being able to.

@Justmeraeagain I'm very lucky to have found a partner where everything is almost 50/50 with us. But I am not one that likes to sit around and not do anything. I'm always on the move doing something it's hard for me to sit still longer than 5 minutes. So this has been very hard for me to have him do everything and may not be able to help like I normally do.

@Cigarguys Maybe think of doing what it takes to get better as helping? Hard to think that way, I am sure