I seriously dislike being single

Do I have a problem?

I’m a "force multiplier" who knows for a fact I function better with a "partner in crime" than alone. To me, life is a team sport; I’m more productive and comfortable fighting the world as a duo. Why is this pathologized as "codependency" or low self-esteem? If I prefer strategic synergy and a shared lifestyle over hyper-independence, why must it be a "psychological issue" rather than a valid personal preference? The current society WORSHIPS hyper independence and you can see it in how women get applauded for not having kids and such and "self-madeness" and such. I am also not desperate, such a theorethical "partner in crime" must follow a set of criteria, it can´t be anybody.

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kittee · 26-30, T

you need to find a aprtner loads of single menout there who also need a partner,

Spnk8 · 36-40, M

I hear that. I've been single for 3 years now it sucks but just thinking maybe I need to focus on me first before I can be better for someone else idk but hang in there don't lose hope!

dziwak · 31-35, F

@Spnk8 the problem is its not considered a valid lifestyle preference. nobody says people who NEED to have relationships with sex in them abnormal but if somebody says the same way they cant tackle life alone all of a sudden they immature!

Spnk8 · 36-40, M

@dziwak yeah I know it's stupid how society is

Jonjdw · 51-55, M

Wow. When I was younger yes wanted a relationship now I have one and if something happened I think I stay alone.

Bklynbadboy12 · 36-40, M

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be a part of something special cause we were never ment to go through life alone with out the love of a partner. Anybody that tells you that there is something wrong with them ask them to take a good look at themselves and ask why do the want to be alone rather than experiencing life with a significant other

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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

This hyper-independence and singledom praising is bullshit. It primarily benefits sellers who get to sell more if people live separately as single individuals as opposed to a group of people splitting costs. I see no reason why a normal, healthy person should avoid a relationship at all costs and present it as a flex.

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