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So this is how my socializing went. What do you feel about it?

So 2 of the best interactions of today happened in Indiranagar area of our city Bangalore in India which is the hipster neighborhood of the city. So at first I went to this new Cafe which opened recently there and saw 2 women-one foreigner and one Indian sitting while they were having a dessert. I initiated a conversation with both of them and acknowledging them. So yeah the foreign woman is basically an expat from the US and the Indian one is from the Indian city Hyderabad. Both were friendly. After I explained them that I was just trying to genuinely meet and socialize with new people, the American woman literally said Hi and gave me a high five. She shared that they are both actually business partners. I engaged with both of them and when the Indian one said she is from Hyderabad, I said I am from Siliguri in West Bengal originally. We even exchanged names and it was a pleasant interaction but yeah obvious as they weren't solo I kept the interaction shorter and wished them a good day and that it was nice to meet them. This definitely felt like one of my dynamic approaches as I navigated the social cues of both American and Indian norm(Telugu norms as she is from Hyderabad and I am Bengali so even within India there is differences between states) and both were pretty women somewhere in their 20s and I am 25.

Then in Third Wave Coffee of Indiranagar, I saw this woman taking a small break in between work and approached her and talked to her and damn she was so friendly. I asked her whether she is studying or working, she said she is working. I then said her I just completed my MBA very recently and trying to meet new people now and then she asked my name for real and I said it and asked hers and she said it but yeah her name sounded very unique for an Indian name so asked her where she is from and she said she is from Kerala which is one of the South Indian state and I said I am from West Bengal. I asked her what she studied and she said bachelor's in commerce. She is definitely about 21-25 age range depending on when she completed her BCom. She then said whether I will return to Third Wave again later as she said she has a meeting soon so can't talk now and said we can talk later in evening if you come here again. But yeah I said her I will be going to UB City mall so I won't return but I said her it was nice meeting her and told her to have a great day and ended the interaction. She was genuinely very pretty too honestly and I enjoyed the interaction. It was good to see how nicely she talked. The interaction literally happened in a Cafe in one of the most cosmopolitan part of Indiranagar so obviously it went so good. But yeah then I went to UB City mall, Lavelle Road, Church Street, but yeah didn't have many social moments due to Thursday foot traffic in the venues. What do you feel?

 
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