A tiring night!
Tim has missed me. We have been very close since we became a couple at university. It is a difficult to describe the relationship because so many have those staid attitudes towards how people are supposed to live in their world. When someone has a different approach to life they are challenged by it and have to talk about it to try to understand or put it away in a box in their minds.
Tim and I have never looked at being ordinary in life, we are not happy being measured by our peers who cannot think outside their boxes. All people are able to see life in their own minds according to their desires and their familiar ways. However, one person should refrain from being overly judgmental except when it involves abuse. Now abuse can be familiar (incestuous) and it can be focused on the power dynamic, neither of us want to challenge those protections, but we are opposed to judging someone because they are not ‘normal’ in some small way.
I am not sure if this explanation explains it enough.
Tim and I have never looked at being ordinary in life, we are not happy being measured by our peers who cannot think outside their boxes. All people are able to see life in their own minds according to their desires and their familiar ways. However, one person should refrain from being overly judgmental except when it involves abuse. Now abuse can be familiar (incestuous) and it can be focused on the power dynamic, neither of us want to challenge those protections, but we are opposed to judging someone because they are not ‘normal’ in some small way.
I am not sure if this explanation explains it enough.
