The reason why being in home on Sunday sucks. Do you relate to it?
So yeah today I didn't go out like last Sunday afternoon and evening and it sucks being in home. Yeah I just went out 2 days ago on Friday and had some good socializing with women but today on Sunday, its still hard due to multiple reasons. First of all the obvious. On Sundays, the Central areas of our city Bangalore in India especially Church Street has a huge pool of Indian women in the 21-30 age range which is my preferred age range at 25 now. I get to talk to many women in my peer age group which I am unable to meet as my MBA is over recently. Also maybe more foreign expat women too relaxed and less busy in Cafes of UB City, Lavelle Road etc and all on Sundays. But yeah no socializing today at all especially as I live in a boring residential area like Munnekolala and many Indian residential neighborhoods are conservative. Also sadly no car spotting either as Sundays have all the flashy car owners taking out their Lamborghini, Ferrari, Porsche, AMGs, Bentleys, BMW M4s, Mustangs etc but as I am not going out, I can't film them or feel thrilled.
But there is another huge reason. I live with my parents(yeah it's normal in India) and on Sundays the privacy seems even limited. I am job searching still so not only my mom sometimes scolds me about still no positive job yet but also several other things. Like even though I have one room where I am, my parents can enter the room whenever they want and my mom scolds me that how much I keep seeing phone. Yeah I have high myopia in my eyes so she has had problem with it for years but nowadays as an adult it feels annoying and frustrating how she scolds me all the time for seeing phone saying "Always seeing mobile phone". It makes me feel as if I am being treated like a 14 or 15 year old. I am playing GTA 5 missions on my laptop but having to hide it. That's because I only downloaded GTA 5 and started playing it since mid 2024 when I was 23 but parents found out and mom scolded me saying how I was about to start my MBA summer internship and not serious about life and that this isn't the time to play these so she said me to delete it. But I just pretended to delete but I didn't and still playing GTA 5 but having to hide it from parents so I had to frequently pause or minimize the game as both my parents can enter the room and dad also enters for going to the washroom in my room. And mom would scold me again if she found out I play GTA 5. So yeah there is less privacy which is common in Indian families. That's happening while I am in a small family so imagine how low privacy the Indian joint families are especially in North India and thank God I am not in one. So yeah Sunday has been hard because of no socializing, no car spotting and less privacy in home.
But there is another huge reason. I live with my parents(yeah it's normal in India) and on Sundays the privacy seems even limited. I am job searching still so not only my mom sometimes scolds me about still no positive job yet but also several other things. Like even though I have one room where I am, my parents can enter the room whenever they want and my mom scolds me that how much I keep seeing phone. Yeah I have high myopia in my eyes so she has had problem with it for years but nowadays as an adult it feels annoying and frustrating how she scolds me all the time for seeing phone saying "Always seeing mobile phone". It makes me feel as if I am being treated like a 14 or 15 year old. I am playing GTA 5 missions on my laptop but having to hide it. That's because I only downloaded GTA 5 and started playing it since mid 2024 when I was 23 but parents found out and mom scolded me saying how I was about to start my MBA summer internship and not serious about life and that this isn't the time to play these so she said me to delete it. But I just pretended to delete but I didn't and still playing GTA 5 but having to hide it from parents so I had to frequently pause or minimize the game as both my parents can enter the room and dad also enters for going to the washroom in my room. And mom would scold me again if she found out I play GTA 5. So yeah there is less privacy which is common in Indian families. That's happening while I am in a small family so imagine how low privacy the Indian joint families are especially in North India and thank God I am not in one. So yeah Sunday has been hard because of no socializing, no car spotting and less privacy in home.
22-25, M