Once is a mistake. Anything after that is a choice. Be very careful.

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I think we make lots of mistakes and sometimes repeat them, not on purpose, just because we can be slow learners.
I like to give people the same grace that I hope they will give me.
Unless we are talking about an abusive type situtation.

Tumbleweed · F

@Justmeraeagain In this case it's about fruends who come around only when it benfits them & then don't know you any other time. I don't let that go.

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@Tumbleweed Here or real world?
On here, I may talk to a person once every 6 months, and we are still cool with each other.
I have people I rarely see in the real world, but they rarely ask me for anything.

Tumbleweed · F

@Justmeraeagain Both but especially in the real world

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@Tumbleweed I try to give things a real wide berth here.
It makes me less upset that way

Tumbleweed · F

@Justmeraeagain I used to be that way until I kept getting discarded like I'm nothing by people who claimed to be my friends so I just don't let it get that far anymore.

jackrabbit10 · M

@Tumbleweed been here when the doors open. learn years ago never get too close to any one.