Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
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Boeing · 36-40
@H1raeth I am talking to a younger guy I have met in Croatia and he's working at a cafe but is incredibly shy, I advised him to give to the girls he likes a little written note with something... He has done this already twice and is writing back to me his stories... He concluded that in the end, even if they reject him, they will feel a boost in their confidence and at least smile...perhaps it is worth it to be expressing yourself some more out there Matt <3
Boeing · 36-40
@H1raeth Yes you absolutely need to... it is more stressful but it is also more rewarding, you know..
and thank you very much for your words about me, I am only needing to take some rest some periods and then I am caring again <3
you too are very caring for others. that is something beautiful that you have too
and thank you very much for your words about me, I am only needing to take some rest some periods and then I am caring again <3
you too are very caring for others. that is something beautiful that you have too
swirlie · 31-35, F
The reason he asked you for your number on his way out of the restaurant... and then messaged you afterwards, was because he was too insecure to talk to you right there at the restaurant.
By messaging you instead, he could ask anything he otherwise didn't have the courage to ask you face to face. That should have been your FIRST sign of what would follow.
What followed at the cafe as you described, was his all-over-the-place nervousness which you so rightly assessed as him being "not very compatible".
Ideally, he should have stayed with you in the restaurant instead of asking for your number ..and right then and there, the two of you could have had lunch together, either inside or on a park bench.
What he showed you about his social approach is a very distinctive product of a generation who got caught up in random socializing on the internet who do not know how to interact with humanity, thereby becoming socially inept without a cellphone in their hand which they have learned to hide behind.
By messaging you instead, he could ask anything he otherwise didn't have the courage to ask you face to face. That should have been your FIRST sign of what would follow.
What followed at the cafe as you described, was his all-over-the-place nervousness which you so rightly assessed as him being "not very compatible".
Ideally, he should have stayed with you in the restaurant instead of asking for your number ..and right then and there, the two of you could have had lunch together, either inside or on a park bench.
What he showed you about his social approach is a very distinctive product of a generation who got caught up in random socializing on the internet who do not know how to interact with humanity, thereby becoming socially inept without a cellphone in their hand which they have learned to hide behind.
Boeing · 36-40
@swirlie In this case, I would also feel like I am following him - at his table, and perhaps I wouldn't want to feel that. I went there to have lunch by myself and not to follow some lead, or something like that. I know it sounds silly, most probably is.
In the end I concluded of how it happened the way I felt the most comfortable and for that I am grateful for all, myself for giving clear signals, him for listening, the universe for the rest..
In the end I concluded of how it happened the way I felt the most comfortable and for that I am grateful for all, myself for giving clear signals, him for listening, the universe for the rest..
AwesomusPrime · 36-40, M
