I saw a post here by an older man in his mid 40s asking whether he can date someone 18-25 and many criticized him so would you judge me as well?

I am just 25 tho and asking it because the youngest i will date is 21. Yeah I know I am in my 20s too but nowadays I do see online many judging age gaps between adults especially reddit and many expect 25 to be a grown man. I prefer women within 21-30 age range but can go older up to 35. So all those who judged that mid 40s man on here, would you judge me too for approaching or dming a woman who happens to be in her early 20s too like 21 or 22 or even 20(if she is turning 21 soon)? 18 and 19 are definitely too young for me but idk any 20 something should be fine at my age but I get confused as many people tend to judge age gaps sometimes even the smaller ones. After reading the post of the 45 year old man and many women on here criticizing him , I am worried whether you will judge me too if I try to talk or date a woman who happens to be early 20s too. What do you feel?