Is it a bad thing if talking to some Punjabi women in general reminds me of this woman Dimple so much?
So as you all know in mid 2024 during my 3rd semester of MBA, I was 23 and for the first time came out of my shyness and was getting to know this woman Dimple who was in my University and she was introverted and soft spoken but she eventually unfollowed me on Instagram suddenly when I was in my hometown Siliguri in West Bengal for 8-9 days and distanced herself saying me she doesn't wanna talk anymore after I returned back to Bangalore and she said its her personal choice instead of explaining what went wrong. So Dimple is Punjabi but lived in Jaipur and came to the city Bangalore in India for her MBA whereas I am Bengali living in Bangalore since 2008. So when we were talking, she opened up saying she is actually Punjabi but mostly grew up in Jaipur which is in Rajasthan state. After she distanced, there was this another woman Chetna in campus who is Punjabi too and talking to her made me miss Dimple. But the biggest similarity happened in early 2025 when I was 24 and doing an internship in this edtech startup. There this female intern named Amanpreet was so similar to Dimple. Like she is also Punjabi but mostly from Jaipur, introverted, soft spoken etc. I was like finally maybe the Universe gave me another chance to get that Dimple-like connection but nope Amanpreet was even more reserved and only stuck with her very close female friend and was very reserved when I tried talking and she didn't try to make new friends and stuck with her only female friend all the time so I could never fully get to talk to her or get to know her more.
So in the meantime I met several Punjabi women too especially with Kaur surname but many faded and many also ended up ignoring my Instagram dm just like many other Indian women in general do too. But recently at 25 just 2 days ago in Church Street area of our city I did approach 2 women in this eatery and talked with them and they were North Indians from Delhi too and talked nicely like asking which University I did my MBA, my name etc. But based on one of their name, she is definitely a Punjabi too. She seemed more extroverted than Dimple was. But idk like I remember Dimple whenever a woman happens to be Punjabi or soft spoken just like how bubbly North Indian women remind me of this woman Itisha who was in my MBA too and my biggest crush in my MBA who was Anshika during 1st semester in 2023. Do you feel its a bad thing? I mean I moved on for sure from Dimple but still I feel that moment was special like how I finally overcome my shyness after years of being shy and finally for the first time initiated conversation with a woman without anyone's help. Its just a moment hard to forget.
So in the meantime I met several Punjabi women too especially with Kaur surname but many faded and many also ended up ignoring my Instagram dm just like many other Indian women in general do too. But recently at 25 just 2 days ago in Church Street area of our city I did approach 2 women in this eatery and talked with them and they were North Indians from Delhi too and talked nicely like asking which University I did my MBA, my name etc. But based on one of their name, she is definitely a Punjabi too. She seemed more extroverted than Dimple was. But idk like I remember Dimple whenever a woman happens to be Punjabi or soft spoken just like how bubbly North Indian women remind me of this woman Itisha who was in my MBA too and my biggest crush in my MBA who was Anshika during 1st semester in 2023. Do you feel its a bad thing? I mean I moved on for sure from Dimple but still I feel that moment was special like how I finally overcome my shyness after years of being shy and finally for the first time initiated conversation with a woman without anyone's help. Its just a moment hard to forget.
22-25, M