So I got this job but it's mostly work from home. How the hell will i meet new women tho?

So yeah after months of searching for a job as someone freshly done with my MBA, I finally cleared this interview and got the job which is a relief to me and my parents but it's most Work From Home but what about my social life? I live in Bangalore in India and it's making me sad that I didn't land an office job where I have colleagues including female ones and make friends 😢😭. I will mostly be in home still but with a job but I am 25 and this is the age when I want to meet new people especially women. I will be still having to stick with cold approaching 😢. I missed out on dating or female interactions for years due to bullying and shyness in the past and only broke out of it at 23 so it sucks that I still don't have an organic way of meeting women and dating apps don't give me matches and I don't wanna miss out at 25.

In fact socializing will reduce further because these days I could still go out to Central Bangalore areas like UB City, Lavelle road, Church Street etc twice or thrice in a week but from now on the whole week I will be in home as I will be busy with my WFH job and will get only weekends. I already planned and excuse to my parents like the HR saying we will have office every alternate Saturdays plus for Sundays I will give the excuse as meeting a male friend. Also I can visit co-working spaces too which are in Central Bangalore or maybe Koramangala but still it won't be the same as having colleagues in an office or startup. Everyone will still be a stranger and it will still be a cold approach 🥺😭 and not organic. I will still have to explain women that "MBA is done and I am mostly doing WFH so trying to meet new people" and that can get exhausting when most don't lead to deeper connections. I will simultaneously still be applying for other jobs and if I get a good offer I will switch but I am sad about this one due to the social aspects even though I am relieved that finally I got a job 🥲

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req89hikowquou

If girls dont like you, you cant force them to like you. Think aboit it. If you were attractive you wouldve already had tons of dates already. But youre not what woman like. I hope you know everyone sees the same thing so if many girls dont like you its not thier problem its yours bevuase youre not what girls like & if yoi were you would defenitly know. Girls will make it hard for uglier guys and ez for the attractive ones. So they are making it hard for you.

Heroisthebest25 · 22-25, M

@req89hikowquou Wtf where did I say anything about these? University is over and my job is WFH so what does attraction got to do with access to women? Also I live in India and things are different here.

req89hikowquou

@Heroisthebest25 how are they different? Most girls are the same everywhere. If girls in india dont like you then they most likely wont like you anywhere else around the world eiether. & indian woman are not the prettiest so they should be easy to get but if even indian girls dont like you that says alot. You will need to get rich if you want the girls of your choice or date kinda uglier girls if you don't have wealth. Get a girl who resembles your own face. As this is how species match with comparability & chemistry. Just because you like her a lot doesn't mean she will like you in return. You will not be able to get 10 or 8 or 9 girls because that's out of your match and those girls will actually end up belittling you instead. You will need to get 1 or 2 or 3 level girls if you try harder. But the prettier girls are out of your level. Only way is if you pay alot or are rich like 500k or more. but if your uglier or average you will need to pay or work since the prettier women are also smarter and will not give up their bodies easily for just anyone , unless you are super good looking too or rich. Think if it like this.. Real life you have to pay to win unless your stunning attractive it will be for free but otherwise not. That's how real life is

Carazaa · F

@req89hikowquou He will do just fine since he is so successful. Don't be jealous!

Heroisthebest25 · 22-25, M

@Carazaa Thank you. His comments have been really very negative. In fact his comments had nothing to do with this post at all as this is about work from home job and not attraction.