Situations like that confuse me 🙄 (possible overreacting)

I know a small conversation can fix this but I want to complain 😔

I didn't like how hanging out with my best friend two days ago ended, everything was alright I got to enjoy a nice cup of French coffee in the sun, could be something small but I can enjoy a simple thing like that, there was even a huge white dog sleeping peacefully in the sun near us on the entrance of the café.

-an illustration of the sitting-

.................

Then we walked to my home, he left his car there earlier so we can walk to the cafe. I don't exactly go out alone anymore these days. But anyway right as we arrived and he was preparing to get into his car he said he didn't like hanging out at that time of the day and he'd like to do it a bit later next time.

He knows it's hard for me to get out in the cold and even if we sit inside the cafes we go to I'll be exposed to smokers and that's something I will not put myself through anymore after my last health ordeal.

Like I mentioned all I have to do is talk to him about it but it's still a bummer having to explain myself over something that I can't control plus I don't like feeling like I'm too much. I mean not to be arrogant but who should be compromising me or him 🤔

Boeing · 36-40

@PiecingBabyFaceTogether I didn't realise.
Well, it's good actually you've taken decisions to not jeopardize yourself like going in there when there's smoke.
And I get your frustration, feeling kind of tired, when you know he knows and still have to repeat yourself... Try to ask him and see really why, maybe he just feels the need to be heard too and he hasn't put much thought into it, because who knows, perhaps he's got his things going on.

The thing is, if you don't talk to him, you will not really know.