Oh Lil....you sound like you need a what we call here in the local folklore ξεμάτιασμα or evil eye removal!!!
here is how chatGPT explains the juju
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The Greek ritual for removing the evil eye, known as xematiasma, is a centuries-old folk practice used to "undo" the effects of a malevolent gaze (the mati). While versions vary by region, the most common method involves water, olive oil, and a secret prayer.
1. The Detection (The Oil and Water Test)
The healer (often a grandmother or elder) fills a small cup or bowl with water and adds drops of olive oil, usually while making the sign of the cross.
The Sign: If the oil stays in a neat droplet on the surface, there is no evil eye. If the oil sinks, spreads, or dissolves into the water, it is a "proof" that the person has been jinxed.
The Severity: Some believe the larger the oil spread or the faster it sinks, the stronger the negative energy.
2. The Incantation (Vaskania)
The healer recites a secret prayer, sometimes called the Vaskania.
The Whisper: The words are usually whispered so they cannot be overheard.
The Transmission: Traditionally, the prayer can only be passed from a woman to a man, or vice versa, often at midnight on Christmas Eve.
Yawning: A common sign that the ritual is working is if both the healer and the "victim" start yawning uncontrollably, which signifies the release of heavy energy.
3. The "Cure" and Disposal
Once the oil begins to stay on the surface again, the curse is considered lifted.
Anointing: The healer may take a drop of the water-oil mix and cross the person’s forehead, or have them take three sips.
Disposal: The remaining water is considered "sacred" or "charged" with the removed negativity. It is typically poured into a flowerpot or onto the ground—never down the drain—to return the energy to the earth.
4. Other Folk Variations
Spitting (Ftou Ftou): A person may spit three times (symbolically) in the air or toward the victim to ward off the jinx.
The Burning Clove: In some regions, a clove is pierced with a needle and burned; if it "pops" loudly, it confirms the presence of the eye.
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Now you only need to find an old greek giagia - grandma and you're set!
