People reveal who they are in the end

@Rokan or pretend to

@Leaveamessage maybe so but i know that ive gown and matured since i was a child since i was a teen since i was a young adult. Growth does happen.

@Rokan some only grow so much and then stop

@Leaveamessage i agree that can happen and cognitive dissonance theory talks a lot about this but the original statement was an absolute that people don't change and that is an awfully negative outlook as well as one that shuts the door on change.

@Rokan Fair enough