How come my other Indian MBA peers don't get criticized online like I do on here?
Like my other Indian peers who were in my MBA campus in my batch year don't get criticized like I do. Like yes they aren't on SW so yeah they don't post on here obviously. They mostly stick to their Indian peer circles they met in the MBA and hangs out with them. Like this group of guys and girls who were in my University went to Goa for trip and enjoying. Yeah they had established friendship so they still hang out and enjoy even though we are all freshly done with our MBA and campus life and they only mostly from other parts of India like UP, Odisha, West Bengal and have been living in Bangalore for 2.5 years whereas I am from Siliguri in West Bengal and living in Bangalore since 2008. But they can still enjoy without scrutiny especially from older men on this site but I get scrutinized by some older men based on my posts. Like I have been on this site for years and since 2023 I have been posting more like my MBA crushes and recently my cold approaches especially foreign women, some Indian women and also chatting on Instagram with women who are in my city and who are in MBA or working or interns. But I had some older Western men on here being rude and mean calling me creepy, stalker, perv even if I clearly don't do anything wrong. I am just talking to women. Yeah my posts can feel repetitive as they are often about women but that doesn't mean they can call me a stalker even though I didn't do anything bad. I respect the women, talk to them, end it quick if she isn't interested in talking, don't push for dates or Instagram etc.
I just post often as I missed out in my younger years due to bullying in school and shyness and only making up for it at the age of 25 now as I only broke my shyness at 23 in mid 2024. Also these cross-cultural conversations still feel special as just like most Indians, I obviously didn't grow up interacting with people of multiple ethnicities and races so I just post them here in excitement just as updates but some older men on here still judges me and scrutinizes me as if I am doing some crime simply for socializing with women. Its crazy how my Indian male peers from MBA can hang out and enjoy outings with women and face no online scrutiny but I do just for posting. Most even ignores the Indian context completely and underestimates the conservatism here, moral policing etc. So do you feel I am different than those other guys from my MBA batch who sticks to their usual Indian MBA circle and only sticks to women from that circle whereas I am spreading out more and trying to meet new women?
I just post often as I missed out in my younger years due to bullying in school and shyness and only making up for it at the age of 25 now as I only broke my shyness at 23 in mid 2024. Also these cross-cultural conversations still feel special as just like most Indians, I obviously didn't grow up interacting with people of multiple ethnicities and races so I just post them here in excitement just as updates but some older men on here still judges me and scrutinizes me as if I am doing some crime simply for socializing with women. Its crazy how my Indian male peers from MBA can hang out and enjoy outings with women and face no online scrutiny but I do just for posting. Most even ignores the Indian context completely and underestimates the conservatism here, moral policing etc. So do you feel I am different than those other guys from my MBA batch who sticks to their usual Indian MBA circle and only sticks to women from that circle whereas I am spreading out more and trying to meet new women?
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