Are you kind, try to be kind, or not at all?

I try to be kind, but many take me as mean because I never stay shut, I say what I think, and I never plan to apoligize for it, and some believe I am too honest.... I tell the truth no matter what, even if the truth isn't pretty, I don't plan to sugar code things, I say it how it is, and right to your face, they don't like it, too bad.... I don't intend to be the mean one in this story, but I can be seen as one, once in a million...