Do you feel its a natural pause from her or is me being a graduate a bad thing to her?
So i messaged this woman on Instagram from our city Bangalore in India itself who is doing her MBA too as i found her in the suggested profile list. She is doing MBA in a different University tho whereas I just freshly completed my MBA from another B School in the same city. We had great chats so far tho and she chatted well with interest even sharing about her and I shared about myself too. Whats crazy is her last name(surname) is a North Indian last name most common in states like UP, Punjab and Delhi side but she says she is from Kerala in South India. She said many confuses her as a North Indian especially a Punjabi. I am from Siliguri in West Bengal in India but living in Bangalore for many years and she is also living in the city for many years.
She is 21 and I am 25 and she is in her 1st year of MBA(grad school). Our chats have been fully peer to peer and we chatted about cars too as she loves cars and related about hectic MBA schedules. But today when she said she skipped a class, i jokingly said "Hehe bunking?"(bunking means skipping classes in India) and then shared how I miss campus life as my MBA just got done 2 months ago. But then she replied about her attendance thing and suddenly replied "Damn oh ur done studying I thought ur still studying". So i explained her that I am from the 2023-2025 MBA batch(she is from 2025-2027 so 2 years my junior in academic year) and also agreed with her about the attendance part. I told her before too that I am fresh grad but i guess she forgot after having several chats.
But after that no reply yet. Yes before too there was once a pause when i said i didnt go to my hometown Siliguri for over a year but she again replied when i asked her whether she likes cars. But today after i explained my batch year, she paused. Do you feel she didnt reply because she didnt see anything to reply to or maybe she hasnt even seen my message or am I suddenly seen as "too old" now as i am done with my MBA whereas she is still doing it? Idk she is an MBA student tho and not some 18 year old 1st year fresh undergrad student. We are both adults and close in age(21 and 25) and she is a postgrad student so i dont think thats the reason but as i read reddit often, i worry about age gaps. Of course i won't message her again and will only message her after a few days starting with a new topic as I don't wanna come across as clingy at all. I really enjoyed the chats with her so far tho. But what do you feel?
She is 21 and I am 25 and she is in her 1st year of MBA(grad school). Our chats have been fully peer to peer and we chatted about cars too as she loves cars and related about hectic MBA schedules. But today when she said she skipped a class, i jokingly said "Hehe bunking?"(bunking means skipping classes in India) and then shared how I miss campus life as my MBA just got done 2 months ago. But then she replied about her attendance thing and suddenly replied "Damn oh ur done studying I thought ur still studying". So i explained her that I am from the 2023-2025 MBA batch(she is from 2025-2027 so 2 years my junior in academic year) and also agreed with her about the attendance part. I told her before too that I am fresh grad but i guess she forgot after having several chats.
But after that no reply yet. Yes before too there was once a pause when i said i didnt go to my hometown Siliguri for over a year but she again replied when i asked her whether she likes cars. But today after i explained my batch year, she paused. Do you feel she didnt reply because she didnt see anything to reply to or maybe she hasnt even seen my message or am I suddenly seen as "too old" now as i am done with my MBA whereas she is still doing it? Idk she is an MBA student tho and not some 18 year old 1st year fresh undergrad student. We are both adults and close in age(21 and 25) and she is a postgrad student so i dont think thats the reason but as i read reddit often, i worry about age gaps. Of course i won't message her again and will only message her after a few days starting with a new topic as I don't wanna come across as clingy at all. I really enjoyed the chats with her so far tho. But what do you feel?
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