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Nightwings · 31-35, F
Quite frankly no one cares enough about a stranger's dating life to read a post this long. While people do post about themselves, it's rarely to such a self-absorbed degree, given that SW is mainly a space for people to have a friendly or funny chat.
When someone does post about themselves in length, the people who reply tend to be people who have known them for a long time, and their friendship is the sole reason why they care.
When someone does post about themselves in length, the people who reply tend to be people who have known them for a long time, and their friendship is the sole reason why they care.
Heroisthebest25 · 22-25, M
@Nightwings But its not just about dating. Its about socializing with women in general because I am in a lonely phase now as I am done with MBA and searching for job so unable to meet new people naturally so having to put myself out there more. So was asking about the alumni meet as i am worried whether i will miss out on things. I spent my teenage years and some of early 20s with no female interactions due to shyness and also bullying in school and making up for the lost years now as someone turning 25
Nightwings · 31-35, F
@Heroisthebest25 I get it, but what do you want from us? I don't know you and you expect me to take time out of my day to have a one-way conversation about you? Do you ever even reply to other people's posts about them, or is the only thing that interests you yourself? If so, maybe that's the problem as to why you don't have friends to ask this stuff in the first place? I'm not trying to be mean, I just don't get why you think it's interesting to us to read the same stuff that you write over and over again. Try to participate in the community if you seek attention online, but please also try for your own sake to focus on making friends IRL (and not just girlfriends). Best advice I can give you is to stop overthinking and just have fun.




