@DancingStarGoddess Why getting angry tho? I am just feeling scared about turning 25 because many online especially reddit says its a serious age and end of youth. Also i am in a lonely phase as done with MBA freshly and job searching so looking to socialize more in general these days so putting myself out there

@Heroisthebest24 who said i was angry? i'm not angry at all lol. also stop listening to reddit. you just post the same thing over and over again. i don't know if you read them back to yourself but it's like a broken record. i don't know what it is you want from us all. we can't tell you what to do with your life because it's yours. you need interaction from males AND females not just one. one year older is just that. you have years to go before you're old. stop listening to reddit and stop obsessing. try having some fun.

@DancingStarGoddess yes i agree with your point that I should talk to both males and females. I just had no female interactions in my teenage years and some of my early 20s due to a lot of bullying in school which resulted in long term shyness and social anxiety especially near girls. I only broke out of my shyness last year at 23 so i am just making up for my lost years now in my mid 20s so trying to socialize more with women nowadays.

@Nightwings But its not just about dating. Its about socializing with women in general because I am in a lonely phase now as I am done with MBA and searching for job so unable to meet new people naturally so having to put myself out there more. So was asking about the alumni meet as i am worried whether i will miss out on things. I spent my teenage years and some of early 20s with no female interactions due to shyness and also bullying in school and making up for the lost years now as someone turning 25

@Heroisthebest24 I get it, but what do you want from us? I don't know you and you expect me to take time out of my day to have a one-way conversation about you? Do you ever even reply to other people's posts about them, or is the only thing that interests you yourself? If so, maybe that's the problem as to why you don't have friends to ask this stuff in the first place? I'm not trying to be mean, I just don't get why you think it's interesting to us to read the same stuff that you write over and over again. Try to participate in the community if you seek attention online, but please also try for your own sake to focus on making friends IRL (and not just girlfriends). Best advice I can give you is to stop overthinking and just have fun.

@RosaMarie Wow didn't expect a woman especially an older woman will judge my post too