Please give me your opinion. Should I visit the alumni meet or just visit UB City mall again this Saturday?
So on this coming Saturday, our campus where I did my MBA and just freshly completed it has kept an alumni meet who invited us fresh 2025 MBA grads. Honestly I wanna visit my campus as I have been feeling emotional about it and the convocation too was in the Nimhans Convention Center of our city Bangalore, India and not our campus so it didn't feel like a full closure. But in the alumni meet I also wanted to socialize with the women from my batch year and also junior year. I am 24 turning 25 in just 4-5 days and the women also will be within 21-28 age range as a whole. I specifically wanted to meet this girl Shamika who is from the MBA junior batch and she is 22 and wanted to meet me in convocation too 🥺 but couldn't and even complimented me as looking smart in the outfit but her batch got a few days off for their mini project so she is in her hometown Nagpur instead so she and many of my juniors won't be in campus. Idk about the other junior batch too. I had been chatting with some of the women on Instagram and Linkedin. Wanted to meet them but idk how many will be there as its Saturday so most of them might take a leave especially on a day without much classes. I wanna meet Anshika again who is 24 too who used to be my crush in 1st sem of MBA. I finally surprised her in the convocation by talking to her confidently 🥹 and complimenting her too but I don't think she will come. Most of my batch year peers feels we got the MBA degree so whats the use of going for the alumni meet.
So should I visit the alumni meet or just visit UB City mall and skip it? I am worried that what if many won't be in campus during the meet. I am mainly wanting to go there to socialize with others especially the women like Shamika, Anshika and other batch year peers and juniors. If many won't be there then I see no use of going there. Yes I also miss the campus 😢😭 and wanna take pics there for one last time plus it will be just 2 days away from my 25th birthday so wanted to enjoy the last 2 days of being 24 before entering 25 🥲 but honestly it feels like many won't be there so there is this confusion. At least going to UB City or other cosmopolitan parts like Lavelle Road, Church Street, Trinity Circle means I can socialize more with women especially foreign expat women and have a good time there. I am worried tho that what if I don't go and miss things and also confused that what if I go and many aren't there and I feel out of place. What do you feel? Should I still visit even if I won't be able to meet Shamika? I don't wanna miss out as idk whether visiting campus later on like in Jan will be fine or not to meet Shamika or other women.
So should I visit the alumni meet or just visit UB City mall and skip it? I am worried that what if many won't be in campus during the meet. I am mainly wanting to go there to socialize with others especially the women like Shamika, Anshika and other batch year peers and juniors. If many won't be there then I see no use of going there. Yes I also miss the campus 😢😭 and wanna take pics there for one last time plus it will be just 2 days away from my 25th birthday so wanted to enjoy the last 2 days of being 24 before entering 25 🥲 but honestly it feels like many won't be there so there is this confusion. At least going to UB City or other cosmopolitan parts like Lavelle Road, Church Street, Trinity Circle means I can socialize more with women especially foreign expat women and have a good time there. I am worried tho that what if I don't go and miss things and also confused that what if I go and many aren't there and I feel out of place. What do you feel? Should I still visit even if I won't be able to meet Shamika? I don't wanna miss out as idk whether visiting campus later on like in Jan will be fine or not to meet Shamika or other women.
22-25, M

