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So socialized again today with some women. What do you feel about?

Before judging me tho, let me tell you clearly that I am only doing it as my MBA is freshly done and I am job searching so unable to meet new people in structured way and it gets very lonely in home so I am giving interviews and then visiting UB City, Church Street, Lavelle Road and Indiranagar in our city Bangalore, India which are very cosmopolitan and putting myself out there. So in Indiranagar area, entered this Cafe and met this Swedish woman again. I met her in another Cafe of Indiranagar several weeks ago. Today we again talked and she was warm and recognized me. I am 24 turning 25 in 10 days and she is a working professional in Bangalore now. Whats crazier is today we were standing and talking and she is actually taller than me. I am 175-177 cm and she is definitely 180-183 cm. But the height didn't matter at all and we had a genuine conversation and I enjoyed meeting her the 2nd time. Her warmth and sweetness made my day and she asked me many questions about me.

Then in another Cafe named Third Wave Coffee in Indiranagar itself, met this another foreign woman from the US. She basically came here for a business trip but now she is just travelling around. She is gorgeous tho and a blonde and definitely somewhere in her 20s. She is also working. In the Cafe, she was working on her laptop and I approached her confidently. The other people in the Cafe stared at me. She was bubbly and warm and we had a great conversation. She couldn't pronounce my name which made us both laugh. We had good laughs during the conversation and talked about each other. Eventually after a great conversation, I ended it saying okay have a great day and enjoy your coffee.

Then in Church Street, in the gifts store, I approached these 3 Indian women. Turns out they are doing MBA in London but visited their home city Bangalore for vacation so it was one of the few cold approaching moments where Indian women weren't cautious and we talked. They are basically fully my peers. I also talked about my MBA. They even asked whether I am doing any social experiment with them but I said "I am just genuine socializing and meeting new people as I am freshly done with my MBA so unable to meet people easily so it gets lonely at times". So they said "Actually we don't live here but if we did we would have been your friend". This felt so validating especially coming from peer aged Indian women as most Indian women in their 20s are reserved and cautious. We had a handshake eventually and ended the conversation.

Then in Lavelle Road's Third Wave coffee, had a brief but warm conversation with a French woman who is a tourist. I waved at her and we had a small conversation. She was friendly and warm too. She is older tho most likely about 38-45 year old and said she is a traveller and today she will return back to France. I kept the conversation brief and ended the conversation saying enjoy your coffee.
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