In your 20's you think you know it all...

In your 30's you realize you don't know it all, if anything, so you become curious and truly learn...

In your 40's you become disappointed in the truth 😂 and start to not give a shit...

I don't know what's next, but I'm looking forward to it.

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HijabaDabbaDoo · F

I don't think I know it all, I thought that when I was like 18 though which is hilarious looking back at it lmao, bless me.

These was a super recent study that suggests adolescence lasting into your early 30's with key turning points being at the ages 9, 32, 66 and 83 as far as rewiring goes which is interesting🤔

SUPERVlXEN · F

@HijabaDabbaDoo
I don't recollect when I was 9 but for the 32 it's not far away from the truth. I'll make a bookmark for my 66th years birthday to remember this.

HijabaDabbaDoo · F

@SUPERVlXEN lol come back with a full review so I know what I'm in for

SUPERVlXEN · F

@HijabaDabbaDoo
Aye, I'll keep dropping by then 😏

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@HijabaDabbaDoo yeah but eventually you'll be looking back on your 20's and realizing you didn't have the life experience. There's no shame in it, it's just part of learning and living. It means you're at it and on to something. It's the humbling effect of aging, the process of wisdom you're capable of because you pursue information and experience.

I only wish I had been more sparse with what I presented as truth through all my years tbh. I'm realizing now there is no answer, nothing is cookie cutter or universally applicable. It's listening and gathering and never really about becoming. There's an end goal for nothing in nature. But who knows, I could change my mind on that in another few years lol

HijabaDabbaDoo · F

@ScreamingFox yeah. I don't know anyone older than me who hasn't felt the same and if past me is anything to go by, the process of learning and unlearning never really stops

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@HijabaDabbaDoo I think that's truly beautiful. Messy and beautiful.

But I do hope there's a point I stop caring so much. I feel it slipping away with acceptance, but I'm tired of my own need.

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

@HijabaDabbaDoo I think it's fair to say there are parts of you which are a lot wiser than they should be for your age lmao

HijabaDabbaDoo · F

@CountScrofula perks of hanging around with older people for most of my life I guess? Idk