Even though I am approaching foreign women now, why does it seem like other Indian guys are enjoying with women better?
So as you all know I have approached multiple foreign women who are expats in our city Bangalore in India especially in cosmopolitan areas like Indiranagar, Lavelle Road, UB City and Church Street. I approached women from Germany, US, UK, Sweden, Africa, France, Canada, Korea etc but something feels missing. Many of my male MBA batchmates and juniors have their mixed gender friends(both males and females), some in relationship, able to hangout with the women in their circles to brewpubs and other venues, having laughs, fun banters together in Hindi etc.
I am Bengali living in Bangalore and just finished my MBA and searching for a job and living with parents in a boring residential neighborhood Munnekolala and I am 24 and unable to meet women in an organic way. In the convocation ceremony which happened on Saturday, I did talk with mutliple women from my MBA batch and even with my MBA juniors too. I complimented multiple female batchmates calling them cute/pretty, even approached Anshika who was my crush in 1st sem of MBA and called her cute too and also suggested hangouts with some women but it still feels like I missed out that carefree moments with girls. I was shy near them for years due to intense bullying in school and only last year at age of 23 I overcome my shyness.
Now I can approach women but not having much opportunities to meet them except cold approaching. Instagram dms also often results in women ghosting me or even blocking me. It sucks how I can talk to a gorgeous Swedish expat woman or a bubbly German woman but I still feel FOMO seeing my male Indian peers hanging out with women who are their classmates or within their circles and enjoying whereas most of my conversations with women so far has been one time. The banters, light teasing, fun outings with women are missing from my life at the moment and I just go out solo mostly and approach women in Cafes, pubs, bookstores and the luxurious mall UB City.
I am Bengali living in Bangalore and just finished my MBA and searching for a job and living with parents in a boring residential neighborhood Munnekolala and I am 24 and unable to meet women in an organic way. In the convocation ceremony which happened on Saturday, I did talk with mutliple women from my MBA batch and even with my MBA juniors too. I complimented multiple female batchmates calling them cute/pretty, even approached Anshika who was my crush in 1st sem of MBA and called her cute too and also suggested hangouts with some women but it still feels like I missed out that carefree moments with girls. I was shy near them for years due to intense bullying in school and only last year at age of 23 I overcome my shyness.
Now I can approach women but not having much opportunities to meet them except cold approaching. Instagram dms also often results in women ghosting me or even blocking me. It sucks how I can talk to a gorgeous Swedish expat woman or a bubbly German woman but I still feel FOMO seeing my male Indian peers hanging out with women who are their classmates or within their circles and enjoying whereas most of my conversations with women so far has been one time. The banters, light teasing, fun outings with women are missing from my life at the moment and I just go out solo mostly and approach women in Cafes, pubs, bookstores and the luxurious mall UB City.
22-25, M