So asked this girl for a hangout and she left my text on seen which means a "No". Did I say anything wrong?
So there is this girl Hiranya with whom I had been chatting for several months on Instagram. We used to be in the same school but as she was my junior we didnt know each other in school but recently about 9-10 months ago I bumped into her profile and we saw we have some mutuals on Insta so we started chatted and she was fine with chatting with me. Now she is 21 turning 22 next month and I am 24. She just freshly graduated college and is working whereas I just freshly completed my MBA and searching for a job now. She is from Himachal Pradesh in North India and I am from Siliguri in West Bengal but we both have been living in our city Bangalore, India for many years. So yeah after chatting for months, today I decided to maybe ask her out via Instagram but she left it on seen which signals disinterest or a "No". But I wonder what went wrong.
Idk whether its because I am still kind of a stranger despite chatting for months and once upon a time being in the same school and we live in the same city or idk whether just like most Indian women, she is reserved or cautious about men too who aren't in a shared context with her. Its sad how Indian women are so reserved whether on Instagram or even when i initiate conversation in person via cold approach in a Cafe or bookstore of Church Street or Lavelle Road and as I am searching for a job and more in home, i am unable to meet new women as easily so relying on Instagram or cold approaching. Here is the screenshot of what I sent her so give your opinion or advice about it
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Let me tell you like this. The only way you will get girls is if your either rich or are extremely good looking. You will never get girls if you dont have atleast one of the two or both. If you try to be nice it will never work because no matter how nice you are girls wont care. If your ugly you will never get girls unless your rich. Are you rich or goodlooking?
@req89hikowquou Lol How old are you? I guess you are some 18 or 19 year old saying these. I clearly mentioned in my post I am searching for a job as I am just freshly done with my MBA. Also yes I wear glasses so can look a bit nerdy at times. But it sounds like you are a kid who thinks only this way.
@Heroisthebest24 so by the sounds of it you are searching for a job. That means youre not rich. so the only option is to be good looking which is highly unlikely if you look nerdy. This isnt just me thinking this way.. This is how all women think. The only option is to become rich. That's your only means of getting woman. Even if you become rich, women will still never like you, only your money. This is the harsh reality. It's survival of the fittest for all creatures.
@Heroisthebest24 im a professor i know my stuff. If you are indian your chances are even lower since indian men are not as attractive as other races, most girls dont like indian men. even Indian girls don't really like Indian men and go crazy for western or more handsome men. Just look at aziz ansari. No girls like him but he is atleast rich and famouse and even with that girls still dont really want to date him because hes missing the most important part, which is good looks, he has the money atleast but not the good looks. With the money he might get a girls attention but without the good looks he might not be able to keep a woman. Most women are attracted to men with almost feminine looks. A straight nose, not too wide nose, fit and not too indigenouse looking. Women do pay attention to looks too. They just wont admit it. Youre only option is to be rich or find a girl of your level, such as an average girl that looks like you or uglier this will help guarantee she might stay with you. But the prettier girls will want a more attractive man. You can attempt to impress these type of girls with money but they will never realy like you but mostly the money. Sex is the only reason men date, so your best bet is to promise a girl alot of money first then she might give you sex but its not garanteed. It is best to date an ugly or average girl similar looking to you. In other words dont try date pretty girls unless you have alot of money, but even then its not garanteed
@req89hikowquou You are just some pessimistic person. Stop replying. You are making a fool of yourself honestly. I will go for whichever woman i want to. Your opinions doesnt matter to me
@Heroisthebest24 i corrected my last reply so read it again. Im not telling you what to do but merely helping you to opening your eyes as to how the world works and how women trully think
