Today I spoke to my therapist about sex and shame and my feelings toward it

Having been shamed by so many other women for my sexuality, I was so happy she received me in such a gentle and encouraging way.

We talked about how having many sexual encounters isn't a thing to be ashamed about, but a way to experiment and find out what I like.

We talked about how many I can enjoy things that not everyone does, and it's okay.

It was nice to talk openly with another female. It was nice to hear her bring up things like BDSM or polyamory or whatever in a way that was so casual and chill, and I can tell she means it.

And that I can be accepting of so many things, and know they are okay, but define sex for myself as well, and what it means to me now.

I've been seeing her for almost two years now, I am still growing and learning with her. She is SO wonderful, I am so grateful.

P.S. This isn't meant to be a hate post on women, I have met a lot of women too that were/are open and supportive. But it's really nice to feel in a vulnerable position and have the other person just be understanding and easy to talk to about it.

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Actually for women the more men she has slept with the more shameful because its too easy to get atternion as a female. You basically domt have to do anything. Just wear makeup amd look good And men go to you. It is your job to make it difficult for men, not easy, and say no to them and preserve your value by sleeping with as little partners as possible preferably none. But for men getting alot of women is not shameful in fact its admirable because its really hard for men to get girls so he should be celebrated for that. Think about it like this. Women live life on easy mode esepccially the more attravtive females and even ugliyish and mid tier women are still considered kinda hot to some so its still rather easy for even ugly girls to get laid. But for mostly all men they live life on hard or expert mode since almost all men are ugly, expendable, and not as intersting as women so they are forced to work harder. And if they do get alot of womem most likely he deserves it because he went through hell just to get that wheras women basically dont have to do anything to get laid. So you must protect your body and have as little body count as possible. Preferably none until you get married. Women are known for coddling and encouraging each others bad behavior when it comes to premiscuity. so maybe it's not the best advice. But this is the truth