Why is it harder to meet a girl similar to her?

I am really curious why I am unable to meet a girl similar to Anshika who was my crush during my 1st semester of MBA in 2023 to early 2024. She was truly different than most girls. I was a bit shy but she initiated conversations with me, even called me cute and i gave her chocolates too. She is a North Indian and I am Bengali and we are in Bangalore Now I am 24 and she is also 24. I still long for her. I met some similar girls like this MBA junior Khushbu who looks very similar to this girl Khushi who was my classmate and a crush too(i posted about her recently on here) and also another girl Amanpreet during my internship in Feb to March 2025 looked and acted very similar to my MBA junior Dimple too and they even shared the same Punjabi background too but from Jaipur in India and now in Bangalore in India but I am unable to meet someone similar to Anshika. Why?

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deathfairy ·

you will never meet anyone like her, she is once in a life time, as is every other person you meet. you’re obvi not ready to be with anyone else if you haven’t moved on from finding her in others.

you might be missing rly special things in other people but don’t even see it, because you aren’t ready to..

Heroisthebest24 · 22-25, M

@deathfairy actually i am just unable to meet new people organically. I am just freshly done with my MBA and now searching for a job and mostly in home so unable to really meet new people easily like i could in my MBA campus. I have cold approached women both Indian and the foreign expats in Cafes, bookstores and this luxurious mall to socialize but of course its not the same as meeting women through structured settings. Dating apps aren't working either. So yeah I am in a limbo phase now and I am missing Anshika more nowadays and longing for her.

Zonuss · 46-50, M

Because no two women are the same.

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