Men & undermining

What’s negging all about? I mean, how can someone actually think that insulting somebody could help their relationship with them? It sounds absurd, but maybe it actually works?

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AngelaR80 · 41-45, F

My ex used to subtly do this all the time. Little put downs and negative comments etc. 20 years I had it. Now I'm realising what it has done to my confidence and self esteem.

SomeMichGuy · M

@AngelaR80 I think it often ends up being incorporated into one's self-talk loop.