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Should I really forget about her or should I follow up once more about the hangout?

So as you all know, last wednesday I messaged this girl who is my junior in my MBA campus on Instagram asking her for a hangout on the recent Sunday(14th Sept). She agreed about hanging out in this brewpub named Bier Loft but on Saturday when I asked her whether we will hangout the next day, she said she has exams on Monday so she postponed it to Wednesday(aka today). But I didn't messaged or asked her about today because she might be busy with classes and the MBA schedule is very hectic. Plus if her classes get over at say 5 PM, Bier Loft is in Neeladri area of Electronic City in our city Bangalore, India whereas I stay in Munnekolala area which is 20-25 km away. She is 22 and I am 24 and yeah I am an adult but I am living with parents so have to return home by 8 PM. I am basically done with my MBA with only official graduation pending and now searching for a job so mostly in home.

So I am thinking of again asking her about this Sunday as hopefully she will be more free because this Sunday is Mahalaya. Idk tho whether I should expect a hangout or not even if she didn't reject me. I definitely want the hangout as its been almost 2 years since my last hangout with a girl which was with my MBA classmate Soniya. I know this girl since Jan 2025 and had several Instagram chats too. If this hangout happens, it will be a confidence boost for me and I will be more confident about asking other girls out too. Plus a hangout with some cute girl like her would be fun. She seems so jolly as well plus we are both Bengali and we both are into cars so a shared interest as well. What do you people feel?
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Zonuss · 46-50, M
If she brings you happiness then go for it.
Heroisthebest24 · 22-25, M
@Zonuss No but we didn't hangout yet. She postponed it but I am unsure whether we will hangout on this weekend or not